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The Woman At The Well

Series: The Gospel Of John Episode 5

Christ asks a Samaritan outcast for water, then offers her a well that never runs dry.

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About This Sermon

Why would the Son of God wait at a well to speak with a woman the whole world had written off? In The Woman at the Well, Dr. Toby B. Holt walks through John 4:1-26, where Jesus, wearied from His journey, crosses every social and religious barrier to seek a sinful Samaritan. He offers her what no well and no relationship could give: "whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst" (John 4:14, NKJV). This expository study shows sovereign grace pursuing the outcast, exposing sin to heal it, and calling all true worshipers to worship the Father "in spirit and truth."

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Questions This Sermon Answers

Most Jews avoided Samaria, yet John 4:4 records that Jesus "needed to go through Samaria" (NKJV). The necessity was not geographic but divine. He went to seek one particular sinner the world had cast aside. This is sovereign grace, the same grace by which God works "all things according to the counsel of His will" (Ephesians 1:11), reaching the outcast on purpose.

Jesus tells her, "whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life" (John 4:14, NKJV). The living water is the Holy Spirit and the eternal life Christ gives. Unlike Jacob's well, it satisfies the soul forever and wells up to everlasting life.

When she asks for the water, Jesus says, "Go, call your husband" (John 4:16), then reveals, "you have had five husbands" (John 4:18, NKJV). He does not condemn her to crush her but to convict her. Saving faith requires the conviction of sin first. The Westminster Shorter Catechism (Q.87) describes repentance as grief for sin joined with turning to God in Christ.

No. Jesus names her sin plainly before He heals it: "the one whom you now have is not your husband" (John 4:18, NKJV). Grace does not excuse sin; it forgives and transforms the sinner. The Lord seeks her precisely as she is, but He does not leave her as she is, drawing her from sin to living water.

He told her, "we know what we worship, for salvation is of the Jews" (John 4:22, NKJV). The Samaritans worshiped in ignorance, but the covenant promises, the Scriptures, and the Messiah came through Israel. Salvation is not invented by the worshiper; it comes from God through the line He appointed, fulfilled in Christ alone.

Jesus says, "the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth" (John 4:23, NKJV). Worship is not bound to a mountain or a temple but flows from a renewed heart, by the Spirit, according to God's revealed Word. This is the heart of the Reformed Regulative Principle: God determines how He is to be worshiped.

"God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth" (John 4:24, NKJV). Because God is spirit and not confined to place, true worship must be inward and sincere, not merely external. The Westminster Confession (2.1) confesses God as "a most pure spirit, invisible, without body, parts, or passions."

Only by grace. Jesus tells her "the Father is seeking such to worship Him" (John 4:23, NKJV). She does not climb to God; the Father seeks her and the Son reveals Himself to her. True worship is the fruit of regeneration, "born of the Spirit" (John 3:8), not a work the sinner offers to earn God's favor.

When she mentions the coming Messiah, Jesus answers, "I who speak to you am He" (John 4:26, NKJV). To this Samaritan woman, rarely to the religious leaders, He declares His identity openly. Christ reveals Himself savingly to those the Father gives Him, fulfilling the promise that the Messiah "will tell us all things" (John 4:25).

She leaves her waterpot and tells her town, "Come, see a Man who told me all things that I ever did" (John 4:29, NKJV). True grace overflows in witness. The one who was an outcast becomes the first evangelist to the Samaritans, and "many of the Samaritans of that city believed in Him" (John 4:39).

Reformed theology holds that saving grace is monergistic: God seeks the sinner before the sinner seeks Him. Jonathan Edwards, in his sermon God Glorified in Man's Dependence (1731), argued that the redeemed are wholly and absolutely dependent on God, who sovereignly initiates and produces grace rather than responding to human merit. This illuminates John 4, where Jesus needed to go through Samaria (John 4:4, NKJV) and approached a Samaritan outcast who was not looking for Him. His sovereign, effectual grace pursues and finds the undeserving.

Key Theological Points

1. Sovereign Grace Seeks the Outcast

Jesus did not stumble upon the woman at Jacob's well. John 4:4 says He "needed to go through Samaria" (NKJV), a divine necessity, not a travel route. The Son of God deliberately crossed barriers of nation, gender, and reputation to seek one despised sinner. Salvation begins not with the sinner seeking God but with God seeking the sinner. As Jesus says, "the Father is seeking such to worship Him" (John 4:23, NKJV).

2. Only Christ Satisfies the Thirsting Soul

The woman had sought satisfaction in five marriages and found none. Every created thing leaves the soul thirsting again. Jesus offers a different water entirely: "whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst" (John 4:14, NKJV). The well of human relationships and achievement runs dry, but the living water Christ gives becomes "a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life," satisfying the soul forever.

3. Conviction of Sin Precedes True Worship

Before she could worship in truth, the woman had to face the truth about herself. Jesus exposed her sin: "you have had five husbands" (John 4:18, NKJV). He convicts not to destroy but to heal, leading her from her sin to the only Savior. He then lifts her eyes to worship "in spirit and truth" (John 4:24) and reveals Himself: "I who speak to you am He" (John 4:26, NKJV). Grace exposes, then transforms.

The Scripture Text: John 4:13-14 (NKJV)

"Jesus answered and said to her, 'Whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.'"

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About Our Speaker

Dr. Toby B. Holt

About The Speaker: Dr. Toby Holt serves as the third President of New Geneva Theological Seminary (Colorado Springs, CO), founded 1993. An expository preacher with over 1.9 million sermon downloads on SermonAudio.com, Dr. Holt brings over 17 years of pastoral experience to his verse-by-verse Bible teaching. New Geneva offers fully online Reformed theological education — M.Div., Th.M., D.Min., and other degrees.

Sermon Transcript

Summary. In this expository sermon on John 4, Dr. Toby Holt of New Geneva Theological Seminary teaches that Jesus Christ deliberately sought out the despised Samaritan woman at Jacob's well to offer her the living water of everlasting life that no earthly thing can supply. Drawing on the Reformed doctrines of Christ's saving initiative toward sinners and true worship in spirit and truth, Holt shows that Jesus knew the woman's sin and shame completely yet did not recoil, revealing Himself as the Messiah who seeks and saves the spiritually thirsty. The sermon calls every hearer to recognize their own soul-thirst and to run to Christ, the only source of lasting satisfaction.

Speaker: Dr. Toby B. Holt · Text: John 4 · Full transcript (lightly edited for readability), ~30 min. Click any timestamp to jump to that point.

A Surprising Encounter with a Despised Sinner

In the book of John, our Lord had a number of one-on-one encounters with people in need. But none of those encounters was more surprising than the one He had with the Samaritan woman in John 4. As we'll see in today's text, this woman had been ostracized by her own people and was despised because of her many sins.

But in talking with Jesus, she experienced just the opposite. For the first time, she experienced forgiveness and hope.

Continue reading the full transcript 32-minute read · 14 sections · every section links back to the audio

Who Were the Samaritans? Centuries of Animosity

In the first century, the Jews were oppressed by this evil tyrannical empire, the Roman Empire. Rome was oppressing Israel at this time. Now, Rome was bad. If you were an Israelite and you lived in Jerusalem and you saw the centurions marching around in your hometown, when you saw all this, it undoubtedly filled you with rage.

And yet, in the first century, do you know who the Jews hated even more than the Romans? The Samaritans. Now, with that said, who are the Samaritans? Given that Rome literally had its boot down on Israel, given what Rome was and who Rome was, who are the Samaritans that they would hate the Samaritans even more than Rome?

Well, for our purposes this morning, let's consider this question for a moment. Let's ask ourselves, who are these people? Who are the Samaritans? Well, the Samaritans at one point had been Israelites, or at the very least, the area in which they lived was part of what you'd call northern Israel.

Samaria is a region of northern Israel. However, it was a region that was taken over in 722 by the Assyrians off to the north. They came in, they conquered the northern kingdom, they conquered northern Israel. And at that time, the Assyrians brought in resettled pagans from other nations into this land.

So the Assyrian king was particularly wicked. He says, how are we going to mess them up? I know what we'll do. We'll go and find some other wicked people, some pagans, and we'll settle them in there, and that'll help disturb the locals who remained, the ones who weren't exiled.

What was the result of that action? What was the result of paganism being brought in intentionally, deliberately into northern Israel on top of the exiles who married pagans in Assyria and then later returned? What happened to this region? Well, what happened is what you would expect.

The region became polluted, corrupted, so to speak, spiritually. Whereas at one point the practices had shown great fidelity to God, to Yahweh, to Jehovah and His ways and His rules, whereas at one point this had been an area that had been faithful, afterwards it was no longer that way. Once paganism had come in, the people began to act like pagans.

Now, were they still Israelites? Well, in an extreme sense, yes, and I'll explain what I mean. The Samaritans had an Israelite background and history. Things like Jacob's well resonated with them as part of their own history, just as it resonated as part of the Jewish history to the south.

They both would have championed Jacob and Joseph and the like.

The Samaritan Bible: A Truncated Torah and a Rival Mountain

But here's the interesting thing. If you were to look at the Samaritan Bible, so to speak, you would find that it had only five books in it, the first five books of the Bible, what's called the Torah. They had the books up through Moses' writings, but all of the other writings, particularly the writings of the prophets and the kings and the chronicles, they did not have.

Now, why don't you think they had it? Well, in part because all those books championed Jerusalem, right? You can't read the story of David without reading about Jerusalem. And they hated Jerusalem.

They had their own holy place, their own mountain, Mount Gerizim. They had no business, no desire, no love for Jerusalem and for the temple therein. And that was proven years later. The Jewish Talmud records this.

But years and years and years later, after the Babylonians had sacked Jerusalem, destroyed its temple, when the rebuilding occurred during the time of Ezra and Nehemiah, the Samaritans, because they had developed this disdain for the Jews, just as the Jews had a disdain for them — the Samaritans took a pig and they brought it to the construction site of the temple.

And when the pig was unfolded into the construction materials of the temple, it caused the entire temple construction to come to a complete halt. Because as kosher, as holy individuals, the Jews of that era would have nothing to do with pigs. And so the Samaritans did this as a way of messing up the Jewish progress with the temple.

There were moments like this scattered across their history, scattered across their interaction that caused the Jews to hate the Samaritans and the Samaritans to hate the Jews. So by the time you get to the first century, at this point there's been centuries of animosity amongst people that are not that far apart in terms of where they live geographically.

Centuries and centuries of animosity. And that animosity had grown to the point that in the first century, in Christ's time, if you wanted to give someone the greatest insult you could, if you were an Orthodox Jew there in Jerusalem and you wanted to absolutely slam someone else, you would call them what? A Samaritan.

You call someone a Samaritan. It's like talking about someone's mother. It's somewhere you don't go. Which is why, interestingly, what did the Pharisees say to Jesus when they really wanted to slam him?

They not only called him a Samaritan, they called him a demon-possessed Samaritan.

Christ Enters Samaria: The Savior Who Seeks Sinners

So with that said, in this context here in which Jesus is going to go into Samaria, he is going to the last place that anyone would ever possibly have wanted to go at this time. And even his own disciples are going to be like aghast at what he is doing. Let's look at this now.

Let's return to the text. Let's look at verses one through nine and then just work our way through the balance. Okay, verse one. Therefore, when the Lord knew that the Pharisees had heard that Jesus had made and baptized more disciples than John, although He Himself did not baptize, but His disciples did, He left Judea to the south and he departed to Galilee to the north.

He went from a dry and dusty climate up to a green and lush climate. But verse 4, but he needed to go through Samaria. And so he came to a city of Samaria, which is called Sychar, near the plot of ground that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Now, Jacob's well was there.

And Jesus, therefore, being wearied from his journey, sat thus by the well. And it was about the sixth hour, which would have been noon. Now, a woman of Samaria came to draw water. And Jesus said to her, give me a drink.

For His disciples had gone away from the city to buy food. Then the woman of Samaria said to him, how is it that you, being a Jew, would ask for me a drink, a Samaritan woman? For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans. All right, verses 1 through 3.

Verses 1 through 3, we read that Jesus had left Jerusalem to go back home again to Galilee, off to the north. However, the problem was, geographically, that to go from one place to another, go from the south to the north in a straight direct line would take you right through the heart of Samaria.

And that was something that they didn't do. If you were a Jew in Jerusalem and you needed to go up to Galilee, you did not take a direct route for that very reason. The Jews would not go through Samaria any more than you would feel comfortable walking down Bourbon Street at two in the morning, right?

This was red light district, not an area to be seen, not an area to go. So what did they do? Well, they went around. They went way around.

In many cases, they crossed to Jordan, went up the Transjordan Highway, and then looped back in to get to Galilee. But we see here that that's not what Jesus did, because Jesus didn't share the priorities of His Jewish contemporaries. Jesus had not come to earth with the idea that I want to avoid sinful people.

Jesus had not come to earth with this idea that I want to avoid those who might otherwise affect or contaminate me, those that I really shouldn't be seen around, those I shouldn't hang with. If that had been the case, He wouldn't have visited anybody. If Jesus' mentality was, I'm not going to go to where the sinful people are, there's nowhere He could have gone where there are not sinful people.

So Jesus had no intention or desire ever of saying, yeah, I think I'm going to avoid Samaria and the Samaritans. Rather, He goes right through the heart of it.

Jacob's Well and the Divine Appointment

And in this time, he goes to a location that's referred to here as Jacob's well. Now, Jacob's well was understood good and appreciated by both the Jews and the Samaritans. It was on a plot of land that had originally been given to Joseph and his children. Jacob's well had been around for how long at the time of Christ?

Roughly 2,000 years. Well, guess what? It's still there. Right now, today, if the world events weren't as they are, you could travel and you could go to Jacob's well.

You could see the water and the whole like. There's a big Greek Orthodox building there. It's kind of interesting is, I guess, the best way I can put it. But the well is still there.

The well is still there. There's been thousands of years that there's been a well there, and it's still there. So here in verse six, we see he goes to this well, this landmark for both the Jews and the Samaritans, and says he's tired, which speaks to His humanity. He did get tired.

Jesus sneezed. He did things that are normal for you and I. So he gets tired and he sits there by the well. And as a good rabbi, His disciples at that time — culturally, His disciples were the ones who would go and take care of the rabbi and get the food and so forth.

So they went into town. He sat by the well and waited, but he did not wait without some expectation of what was about to happen. He was waiting with a divine appointment in view. He was waiting for one to come who He knew was going to come, a woman from Samaria.

The Woman at the Sixth Hour: Marked by Sin and Shame

Now, what do we know about this woman? Well, we know a couple things right off the bat. The first is this. No, no good, revered, devout woman of Samaria went and got water at the sixth hour of the day at noon.

At that time, no one went in the Middle East to go do their hard labor in the middle of the day. Rather, they would go in the morning or they'd go in the evening. And the idea was that you got enough water to last you 24 hours to do your washing, to clean your utensils for drinking and the like.

They did it either in the morning or they did it evening. But they did not, did not go in the middle of the Middle East at noon, at the sixth hour, to go and get the water. And we know that no one did this at the sixth hour because no one else is here.

This is the primary source of water. This is the primary source of refreshment and cleansing and purification, all these different things, and no one else is there but this woman. What does that tell us about her? It tells us, as we're going to find out later in the text, that she bore a giant scarlet letter upon her.

In this sense, she was known to be a sinner. She was ostracized from the community. She couldn't go when the other people went to get the water. She had to go by herself.

And so here, this Samaritan sinful woman comes to get water in the middle of the day, and she encounters Jesus.

The Offer of Living Water

“Whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.”

— John 4:13-14 (NKJV)

Now, at this point, we see there in verse 7 that Jesus does what's almost unthinkable. He asks her for something. He asks her for a drink. Give me a drink.

For his disciples had gone away in the city to buy food. And the woman says, how is it that you, a Jew, are asking me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink? For the Jews had no dealings with the Samaritans. That's actually — depending on the translation — that's a poor phraseology.

They did have dealings with the Samaritans. Where had the disciples just gone? They'd gone to get food in a Samaritan town. So they had dealings.

But you know what they would never have done — never in a billion years would they have done — is share a meal or a drink or utensil with the Samaritan. That's different. And so when He, in effect, a guy sitting there with no scoop, no spoon, no cup, no bowl, nothing, says, give me a drink, He was saying, I will utilize what you have to nourish myself.

And that astonishes her because she's never heard of such a thing, let alone experienced such a thing. And so she asked Him, what is going on here? Why would you do this? Do you know who I am?

All right, let's see His response in verses 10 through 15. Verse 10, so Jesus answered and said to her, if you knew the gift of God, if you knew who it says to you, give me a drink, then you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water. And the woman said to him, sir, you have nothing to draw with.

The well is deep. Where do you get this living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as well as his sons and his livestock? In verse 13, Jesus answered and said, whoever drinks of this water, as if he's probably pointing to the well, whoever drinks that water, whoever drinks of this water will thirst again.

You come here every day. Whoever drinks of this water will thirst again, but whoever drinks of the water that I give him will never thirst. But the water I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up, gushing up, bubbling up into everlasting life. And the woman said to him, sir, give me this water.

Evidently it sounded pretty good. Sir, give me this water that I might not thirst nor come here to draw. So she's still confused about exactly what he's talking about, but she knows this much.

The Thirsty Soul and the Vanity of Earthly Pursuits

It sounds pretty good. All right, so let's stop and ask ourselves a little bit more about this woman. In the earlier verses, Jesus had been the one to ask for water, but it was the woman who was actually thirsty. As we said before, this woman was undoubtedly socially isolated.

There's a reason why the text says it was the sixth hour of the day, the one part of the day when no one goes and does labor like this. We know that she was socially isolated. She did not go to the well at the same time as others. No one accompanied her to the well at this time.

So she was alone in her walk through life. And in a moment, we're going to find out that she's actually had five husbands, and the person she's with now isn't even her husband. This is a woman who was alone in her walk through life and who had made many, even countless bad choices.

She probably was the scourge of her town. A pariah would be the term that we would use. With that said, who's really thirsty here? Is it Jesus?

Is it this lady? Well, if you're talking about spirituality, if you're talking about emotions, if you're talking about the heart, this woman was the thirsty one. You could argue that her soul was parched. Her soul was not just parched, her soul was bone dry.

She came up bearing all the baggage and all the hurts and all the loss and all the accusations and all the slander and all the gossip. And everything that everyone ever said upon her probably hung about her shoulders as she came up to that well to get water just to nourish her body.

And even as she nourished her body, she'd have to do it again a day later. With that said, the one thing she could not nourish, the one thing that that well could not serve in any capacity was the hurts that she bore. Her soul was bone dry. Well, Jesus knew that.

Again, this is a divine appointment. Jesus knew her condition. He knew the Samaritan woman's greatest needs, just like He knows yours and mine. How many of us, as a side note, have lived in a spiritual desert, chasing the world's nourishment, chasing things that we think will feed us, you know, at least for a season?

We chase things that feed our body. We chase fame, success, and money, and relationships, and all of these different things. And then one day we wake up from chasing all that, and we say, you know what? This didn't turn out like I had thought it would.

How many of us can relate to this? We've spent a big portion of our life chasing after things that would feed our pocketbook or feed our pride or what have you or lust or whatnot. How many of us have spent a whole lot of time feeding our carnal selves only to wake up one day and go, this is no good.

I'm as empty as I used to be. I've acquired these different things. I've had these different experiences, and yet I'm just hollowed out. I'm just dead inside.

How many of us have had that experience or have observed others in our walk who are presently undergoing those circumstances, those situations?

Solomon's Verdict: All Is Vanity Apart from Christ

You know, who is the richest man to ever live? What was his name? King Solomon. Who was, I don't know, the wisest man in the Bible?

You can say Solomon again. Who was the richest, wealthiest, most famous guy of his age? Solomon, Solomon, Solomon. Who had more wives than anybody in the Bible?

Solomon. Every possible thing that mankind typically lusts after in our culture, whether it's money or fame or power or relationships, sexuality, what have you, Solomon had all of it to the hilt. Every part of that. Everything that you have ever desired, Solomon saw in the most extreme form you can see it.

Solomon experienced it in the most extreme way that it can be experienced. Solomon had all of that to the utmost. And at the end of days, in Ecclesiastes, he says it was worth nothing. A chasing after the wind.

Vanity. It was all vanity. Whatever you're chasing, if it's not Christ, whatever you're chasing, if it's not the God who made you, whatever you're chasing, if you're a created being and you're not chasing the creator, other things in the created realm are not going to be sufficient. And even if you got them, even if you got all of it, to the utmost that you could get it, you would wake up one day and feel empty.

Thirsty. Well, this woman didn't even have the physical stuff to distract her. She didn't even have the benefit of those things to at least pretend that she was being well-nourished. She was hollowed out, she was dry, and she was thirsty.

And then along comes this one. And he says, I know your condition. And I know that what you're seeking is not enough. I've come to offer you something more.

Let's see how that conversation plays out as we look at the balance of our verses.

Five Husbands: Christ Exposes Sin Yet Does Not Recoil

Let's look at verses 16 through 26. So Jesus said to her, go, call your husband and come here. And the woman answered and said, I have no husband. She had to say that with shame.

She had to say that with shame. Call your husband and come here. Sir, I have no husband. But she was honest.

She was honest. So Jesus said to her, verse 17, you well said I have no husband, for you've had five — you've had five husbands — and the one who you now have is not your husband. In this you have spoken truly. And the woman said to him, sir, I perceive you must be a prophet.

See, he had just told her something that was her greatest embarrassment. They'd never met before. How would he know it? So she says, sir, I perceive that you're a prophet.

And then she brings up this theological question that was probably on her heart, in the heart of a lot of other Samaritans. They probably wondered about this all the time. But she asked it. This man who seems to be a prophet — she asked him a question, verse 20.

She says, our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews say that Jerusalem, that that's the place where one ought to worship. She thought that was the only distinction that mattered. Well, Jesus is going to correct her and say, that's not the distinction that matters. Verse 21, Jesus said to her, woman, believe me, the hour is coming when you will neither worship on this mountain or in Jerusalem.

Neither place is going to be the litmus test for what good worship is and what good worship has done. Woman, believe me — remember, they had neutered the Old Testament text. They took the first five books and lopped off everything else, which meant they missed a whole lot of stuff. And so he looks at her and says, You've deliberately been ignorant.

You and your people have taken about this much of the text, and that's what you've held on to. You don't understand what you're worshiping and who you're worshiping, and you don't understand how salvation works. Salvation is of the Jews. But the hour is coming.

This is a transition. He says, therefore, but an hour is coming, and it's now here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth. The woman said to him, Sir, I know that the Messiah is coming, the one called the Christ, and when he comes, he will tell us all things.

Can you imagine the gleam in Christ's eye right about then? Verse 26, Jesus said to her, I who speak to you am he.

He Knows Everything and Still Loves: Grace for Sinners

All right, in verses 16 through 18, Jesus has identified the woman's source of sin and shame, all her husbands. In the same way that He knows everything about you and all that you've done and the thoughts you've had and the deeds you've done and the like, He knew everything about her. And so He identifies it.

He identifies the source of her sin and her shame. With that said, what He doesn't do is run from her at that time. I think I've said it before. Even in this austere, Presbyterian, loving church body, the truth is, if you knew every thought, every deed that everyone had done to your left and to your right this morning, there aren't enough doors for how far we would want to move away from one another.

And that's the reality. We put on our fine run and our clothes and like, but we know the rot that has existed inside. We know what we've done in times past. And we know that if those things were named and listed out, that there's a lot of people in our world that just wouldn't want anything to do with us.

Well, here Jesus says, I know everything about you. And not just the Samaritan woman, but you and I this morning as well. Jesus says, I know everything. I know it all.

I know what you've done. I know what you've said. I know things you've thought. Now, in spite of what I know about you, I still love you.

Here in this text, he does not run. He does not turn. He does not recoil. In spite of knowing these things about her.

The very same things that other people ostracized her for. Remember when I said people would move away from you? That's what happened to her, right? That's exactly what happened to her.

In her society, the people knew what she'd done, and so they avoided her. They ostracized her. But here, He sits with her, and He talks with her. And when His own disciples show up, they're going to basically think, what are you doing?

Remember, that always happened to Jesus. Remember when Jesus would sit down with sinners and tax collectors for a meal, and other people would walk around and go, what is he doing? Doesn't he know who he's sitting with? Yes, he does.

Because He did not come to save the righteous. He came to seek out sinners. But that said, he found one here.

True Worship in Spirit and in Truth

“God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”

— John 4:24 (NKJV)

Now, the woman, despite the fact that he's still there talking, which she can't believe, she says, well, here's a chance to ask a question, a burning question of this Jewish rabbi who's sitting in front of me. And so she asked the question. She says, our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews say that Jerusalem is the place to worship.

This was the demarcation line between these two people who shared the same ancestry, who both would have appreciated the very well in front of them. This was the line of demarcation. You guys worship there. We want to worship over here.

And it was a divide that had been around for a long time to the point that some people didn't even know why they did it this way. Sometimes you can do things for generations and wake up one day and go, why do we do it this way? Well, so she asked. She says, why did we worship here and you worship there?

Well, rather than give her the history lesson, Jesus wants to seize on the word worship. He says worship is not a function of where you do it. It's not to say that where doesn't matter. This morning you were better off worshiping God in the context of corporate worship in the church than you would be worshiping him on the golf course.

So it's not to say the location never is relevant. But in this context, the idea that you could only worship in one place wasn't true. So he redefines that. He says worship is not a function of where it's done, nor is it a function of the ancestry of the people doing it.

One of the wonderful things about God's promise and the new covenant that had originally been prophesied through Jeremiah and others was that a day would come when it wouldn't just be the Jews and Judea and northern Israel, Samaritans included, or anyone else that would worship God, but there'd be people in Ephesus and Corinth and Greece and even in Rome, which was, again, the greatest threat to all cultures on the globe at this time.

Even in Rome, there'd be people who would pray and would worship God there, despite where they're at, despite what they've done, and despite the ancestry that isn't even the remote part Jewish. It'd have nothing to do with Jacob's well. Even there, God would raise up people to worship Him. So this is what He's saying.

This is what He's saying. And this would have blown her mind just as it blew the Pharisees' minds. Everyone he told this sort of stuff to, immediately their reaction was to get their back up against the wall, because all they had at that time was their love and affection for those who were in their group, their clique, and their hatred for everyone on the outside.

Jesus says that's not the way this works. With that said, the Jews had a history, even in Jerusalem, of worshiping in the right place and worshiping the true God, but worshiping in a way that rose as a stench to His nostrils. In the book of Jeremiah that I just mentioned a few moments ago, in Jeremiah chapter 7, you would have a group of holy, devout Jews.

Not holy so much. They appeared holy. They appeared devout. You would have this group of Jews in Jeremiah 7 who would go into the temple there in Jerusalem, and they would repeat, this is the temple of the Lord, the temple of the Lord, temple of the Lord.

They would repeat as if it mattered to them. They would look at the religiosity, the things they were doing, the place they were worshiping in, and they would put all their emphasis there. And at the same time, God looked at their hearts and said, you guys, you guys are full of it. You're saying the temple of the Lord while you're here in Jerusalem, but your hearts are far from me.

It's a verse that says that the people honored God with their lips, but their hearts weren't there. That said, what kind of worship does God want? If it's not a function of exactly where you do it and what time of day you do it and the amount of prayers you say and like, if that's not a function, then what is the function of true worship?

Well, He's got to tell her. He told her in these verses, he says, look, this is the sort of worship God wants. Whether you're a Jew, a Samaritan, whether you're in Jerusalem, whether you're in Rome, whether you're in Gulfport, the sort of worship that God wants is a worship that's done in spirit and in truth.

In spirit and in truth. The truth part's easy. It's got to be founded on this. There's a lot of ways you can worship the God who has made you.

But this is the way, or this book describes the way that He desires to be worshipped. It describes the precepts by which we approach Him, the diligence with which we come to him. It describes who He is, what He expects of us. We come to God not on our terms, inventing the way we think He might want to be worshipped or the way we want to worship Him.

Rather, we worship Him in truth on the basis of what this book says. Secondly, we do so in spirit. There's a whole sermon there, but in short, we worship Him with a spirit that has been changed, regenerated, with hearts that are true, with hearts that hate our sins, that have turned away from that which we're doing wrong, are inclined towards Him.

There's humility. There's all these different sort of things. And this is an appropriate way by which we come to God. And there was people, even Pharisees, at this exact hour, this exact time, there in Jerusalem, who worshiped God all the time.

And yet they didn't repent and they didn't worship Him in spirit at all. We talked about this on Wednesday night. There's a famous parable in which you have this Pharisee standing next to this tax collector. And the Pharisee is praying, oh God, oh God, thank you.

Thank you what? Thank you that I'm not like him. Thank you that I'm not like this tax collector. Now meanwhile, what was the tax collector doing?

He couldn't even look up. He was beating his breast saying, Lord God, forgive me. I am a sinner. That's what God desires of us.

That we'd have a right understanding of who we are. And therefore a greater appreciation for who He is. We worship Him in spirit and in truth.

The Coming Hour: Christ Reveals Himself as Messiah

“I who speak to you am He.”

— John 4:26 (NKJV)

With that said, as we look to wrap up this morning, notice that when Jesus did this, when He talks about worship in this context, He refers multiple times to something called a coming hour. A coming hour, and the woman brings this up in one of her last questions there in verse 25. The woman says, I know that the Messiah is coming.

She thinks to me, that's what He's talking about, this coming hour. I know that the Messiah is coming, the Christ. When he comes, he will tell us all things. At that point, Jesus told her with clarity that He didn't always tell the Pharisees with.

He says, you know what? The one who's speaking to you, I am he. I speak to you.

Are You Thirsty? Run to Christ for Everlasting Water

The one who speaks to you, the one who's talked to you about the living water, the one who didn't run away from you, I am He. In John 3, we saw the last week, the Messiah had come, but He hadn't done what anyone expected. And He came to people that you would never expect.

Last week, He had this encounter with Nicodemus, the high and mighty. Here comes the Samaritan sinful woman who was on the low end. Jesus did not do the things people expected Him to do. He did not go to the people that other people expect the Messiah would go to.

There was nothing about His ministry, nothing about His ministry that made sense to those observing it, oftentimes including the disciples. How often do the disciples look at what Jesus did and just go, oh my goodness, I can't believe he's doing that. It happened all the time. And yet, and yet, the irony is, even though He wasn't fulfilling the expectations of the people, He was fulfilling this.

This book told everyone who He would be and what He would come to do. This book anticipated the nature of His ministry. This book says that when He came, He would be lowly and meek. That when He came, He would seek out the hurting.

That when He would come, Isaiah 53 says that He would be despised, a man of grief and acquainted with sorrows. He was the last thing people would look for, but the very thing that people need. This morning, are you thirsty? The answer is yes, whether you own it or not.

You and I are thirsty. If God has regenerated our hearts and we've already experienced the sensation of this everlasting life, and it's given us a hope that we didn't previously have — but there may be some present today or within the hearing of my voice that are not there yet. They're on the outside looking in.

They're looking for something. Maybe you're looking for something, something that will fill that giant vacuum inside. This morning, Jesus has the same message for you and I who are seeking or searching or desiring or wanting fulfillment. The same message as he did for the Samaritan woman.

I who speak to you am he. If you hear his voice this morning, whether you're already a believer and have kept him at arm's length, or whether you're outside looking in, it matters to faith. You have a problem. Jesus has the answers.

You are thirsty. Jesus has everlasting water. Run to Him. Let's pray.

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