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Lazarus And The Timing Of God

Series: The Gospel Of John Episode 11

Jesus waited until Lazarus was four days dead — so no one could doubt the glory.

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About This Sermon

Why does God wait when those we love are suffering? In this expository sermon on John 11:1-44, Dr. Toby B. Holt examines the raising of Lazarus, where Jesus deliberately stayed two more days while His friend died. The delay was not indifference but sovereign purpose, ordered for the glory of God and the strengthening of faith. From a Reformed perspective, Holt unfolds Christ's deity over death, His true human compassion, and the certain hope of resurrection. As Jesus declared, "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live" (John 11:25, NKJV).

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Questions This Sermon Answers

His delay was purposeful, not neglectful. Scripture says, "So, when He heard that he was sick, He stayed two more days in the place where He was" (John 11:6, NKJV). Jesus had already declared the outcome: "This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God" (John 11:4). The Reformed doctrine of providence holds that God's timing serves His glory and His people's good, even when it differs from ours.

No. The text states plainly, "Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus" (John 11:5, NKJV), and immediately notes that He stayed. His love and His delay are placed side by side. A greater good was intended, namely the strengthening of faith and the display of His power over death. God's love is not measured by the speed of relief but by the wisdom and goodness of His purpose.

He claimed to be the very source of life, not merely its agent. "Jesus said to her, 'I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live'" (John 11:25, NKJV). Resurrection is not only a future event but a Person. This is one of the great "I AM" sayings of John's Gospel, asserting Christ's full deity and His authority over the grave itself.

Yes. The Confession teaches that Christ, as Mediator, was given "all power and judgment" by the Father (WCF 8.1) and that He purchased "an everlasting inheritance in the kingdom of heaven" for the elect (WCF 8.5). His command at the tomb displays that authority. The raising of Lazarus is a foretaste of the resurrection Christ guarantees to all who are united to Him by faith.

It reveals the true humanity of Christ. "Jesus wept" (John 11:35, NKJV) is the shortest verse in Scripture, yet it shows the incarnate Son entering real human grief. The Westminster Confession affirms that the Son took "the whole nature of man, with all the essential properties" (WCF 8.2). He is no distant deity but a sympathetic High Priest who genuinely feels the sorrow of His people.

Foreknowledge does not cancel real compassion. Twice the text says He "groaned in the spirit" and "was troubled" (John 11:33, NKJV). His tears were not feigned. Hebrews says we have a High Priest who can "sympathize with our weaknesses" (Hebrews 4:15, NKJV). Christ grieved the wreckage that sin and death bring into the world He made, even as He prepared to overturn it.

Lazarus was restored to mortal life and would die again. He came out "bound hand and foot with graveclothes" (John 11:44, NKJV) and still needing to be loosed. Christ's resurrection was to glorified, deathless life, leaving the graveclothes behind. Lazarus is a sign that points beyond himself to the greater resurrection that Christ alone secures for His people.

It teaches grief held together with hope. Martha confessed, "I know that he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day" (John 11:24, NKJV), and Jesus pointed her to Himself as that hope. Paul calls death "the last enemy that will be destroyed" (1 Corinthians 15:26, NKJV). Christians may weep at the grave, yet not "as others who have no hope," because Christ has conquered death.

He prayed for the benefit of the watching crowd. "Because of the people who are standing by I said this, that they may believe that You sent Me" (John 11:42, NKJV). The miracle was a public sign confirming His identity as the Son sent by the Father. The whole event was ordered toward faith, just as Jesus had said: "that you may believe" (John 11:15).

It calls us to rest in God's wisdom when His timing confuses us. The same Lord who waited also wept and then conquered the grave. "We know that all things work together for good to those who love God" (Romans 8:28, NKJV). Delay is not denial. The God who is never late is working all things, even our hardest waiting, for His glory and our good.

Reformed theology reads the deliberate delay of John 11 through the doctrine of providence. John Calvin, in his Institutes of the Christian Religion (Book I), taught that God governs every event by His wise and secret counsel, so that nothing occurs by chance and even seeming delays serve His purpose. Christ tarried two days not from indifference but to display a greater glory, as He declares, "I am the resurrection and the life" (John 11:25, NKJV). The apparent lateness was sovereignly timed for the fuller manifestation of His power and the strengthening of faith.

Key Theological Points

1. God's Timing Is Sovereign and Wise

Jesus did not rush to Bethany. He stayed where He was, fully aware that Lazarus would die, because a greater purpose was at work. The delay was deliberate and good, ordered for the glory of God and the deepening of faith. Reformed theology calls this providence: God governs every circumstance, including the timing of our trials, for His glory and our good. As Jesus said, "This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God may be glorified through it" (John 11:4, NKJV).

2. Christ Has Authority Over Death

At the tomb, where death appeared final and the stench of decay was already present, Jesus revealed Himself as the conqueror of the grave. He is not merely one who gives life; He is life itself, and death must yield to His command. This claim asserts His full deity and His power to raise the dead. "Jesus said to her, 'I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live'" (John 11:25, NKJV).

3. The Lord of Life Enters Our Grief

Before He raised Lazarus, Jesus wept. The eternal Son, who knew He was about to call the dead to life, still entered fully into human sorrow with genuine tears. This is the comfort of the incarnation: our Mediator truly sympathizes with us in our weakness and loss. He is both sovereign over death and tender toward the grieving. The shortest verse in Scripture carries this weight: "Jesus wept" (John 11:35, NKJV).

The Scripture Text: John 11:25-26 (NKJV)

"Jesus said to her, 'I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?'"

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About Our Speaker

Dr. Toby B. Holt

About The Speaker: Dr. Toby Holt serves as the third President of New Geneva Theological Seminary (Colorado Springs, CO), founded 1993. An expository preacher with over 1.9 million sermon downloads on SermonAudio.com, Dr. Holt brings over 17 years of pastoral experience to his verse-by-verse Bible teaching. New Geneva offers fully online Reformed theological education — M.Div., Th.M., D.Min., and other degrees.

Sermon Transcript

Summary. In this sermon on John 11, Dr. Toby Holt of New Geneva Theological Seminary teaches that God sovereignly decrees hardship, sickness, and even death for His own good and glorious purposes, so that a believer's comfort rests not in explanations but in the promises of a God who works all things together for good. Preaching the raising of Lazarus, Holt shows that Jesus deliberately delayed to reveal Himself as 'the resurrection and the life,' proving from Reformed doctrine that what seems to us like crisis is often the very gateway to something wonderful we could not otherwise have.

Speaker: Dr. Toby B. Holt · Text: John 11 · Full transcript (lightly edited for readability), ~30 min. Click any timestamp to jump to that point.

God's Good Purpose Behind Painful Delay

“This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God may be glorified through it.”

— John 11:4 (NKJV)

In John 11, Jesus got word that His friend Lazarus was dying. But rather than go to his side, Jesus waited until Lazarus had passed before traveling to Bethany. And at that time, no one understood why he had waited so long. But in today's study, we'll see that God has a good reason for everything that He does, even if we can't see it at the time.

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The Blessed Hope: Why the Saints in Heaven Do Not Wish to Return

The Christians that we love, the Christians that we miss, the Christians who are in heaven, they don't want to come back. Those who are in heaven right now, those that we love, they're not sitting there at the gate of heaven pounding on the door saying, let me out. They've seen up close what you see from a distance.

And the reality of that exposure to the fulfillment of the promises of God, the fulfillment of their faith, it is a far greater thing to see those promises fulfilled in person than to ever dare or dream to go back to a place where their vision might be clouded once again. The very thing that people have dreaded, the very thing that you and I may dread, became the gateway to a future that our loved ones don't want to leave.

Now you know that to be true. The challenge we have is understanding it. And on this side of the veil, maybe we never will. But here's the thing.

God's comfort to you this morning is not in explanations to you about what's going on. It's in promises He gives you that I'm in charge, and I will yet take every good thing and every bad thing that's going on in your life and in your circumstances, and I'll weave them together into a narrative that is better than you could possibly imagine in the present.

Do you believe that? Your comfort is not in explanations. Your comfort is that He's made a promise, and He keeps those promises, and in time you'll see it up close.

God's Sovereignty Over Death and Every Present Hardship

Our loved ones do now. They're just fine. Now, if God can take death and turn it on its head, then what can't He turn on its head? If He can take death and say, where is that sting?

If He can do that to death, then what can't He fix or address or utilize in your present? Relationship hardships, economic, financial, health-oriented stuff. If He can take death, turn it on its head and turn that into the greatest gateway for our loved ones and for ourselves in the future, then what about our present hardships can He not do the same with?

The Doctrine of the Decree: God Not Only Allows but Ordains Suffering

In today's text, there's going to be a man who's going to be deathly sick. And as he's deathly sick, everyone's going to go, oh, this is terrible. And not only did God allow such a thing to happen, to be clear, not only did God allow, like look down and go, oh my, Lazarus is sick.

How did this happen? Not only did God allow Lazarus to be sick or you and I to go through various hardships, but He decreed them. And that's what we're going to see in today's text. He decrees these things.

Now, again, why? Instead of swooping in at the last minute, Jesus in today's text let Lazarus die. To everyone involved, that seemed wrong. However, again, they didn't know the whole story.

Today, we're going to try to comprehend that story as we look at verses 1 through 27 together. All right, let's revisit verses 1 through 6 and just kind of work our way through as far as time will allow.

Even Those Whom God Loves Get Sick

Verses 1 through 6. Now, this certain man was sick, Lazarus of Bethany, the town of Mary and her sister Martha. Now, it was that Mary who had anointed the Lord with fragrant oil and wiped His feet with her hair, whose brother Lazarus was sick. Mary's regularly at the feet of Jesus.

When Mary shows up, she's at Jesus' feet, and that's what this is a reference to. Verse 3, therefore the sisters sent to him, they sent word to him, their brother is sick, they sent word to the one guy on planet earth they knew could do something about it. They sent word to him, saying, Lord, behold, he whom you love is sick.

Now when Jesus heard that, He said, this sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God may be glorified through it. Now, Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus, and yet when He heard that he was sick, verse 6, He stayed two more days in the place where he was.

At face value, that's the most counterintuitive thing you can imagine. If you had a loved one, someone so dear to you, dear as life itself, and you heard that they were sick, that they were hurting, maybe even dying, what would you do? Well, in all likelihood, you'd drop what you're doing. You would rush to be the side of he or she whom you love.

What you would not do is say, I think I'm going to hang out right here. So in these verses, verses 5 and 6, we see that Jesus loves him, loves him, loves him, yet when He hears that he's sick, He stays two more days in the place that he was. You know, even the people that God really, really loves get sick.

Even the people that God really, really, really desperately, dearly, fervently loves get sick. In verse 1, we encounter Lazarus, the brother of Mary Martha, one of his close friends to Jesus. This is not like someone that Jesus didn't care for. This is not an acquaintance to someone he bumped into.

Nothing quite like this. This is someone that was close to Jesus. Dear to his heart is what we see here. So dear to his heart that everyone expected He would do something about it.

He loves this man. Surely He will do something about it. That's the idea. But that's not what happens.

Verse 6 says this counterintuitive thing.

The Context: Danger in Judea and the Disciples' Fear

Now when Jesus hears that he is sick, He stays put for two days. Now, if you're the disciples — let's talk about the context here for just a moment. Jesus had been in Jerusalem, and everyone had been opposing Jesus in Jerusalem. The Pharisees, the leaders, the elders, the scribes, the Sadducees, and the like, the magistrates, all these sort of guys were mad.

They were angry at Jesus throughout His time in Jerusalem. We talked about that the past few weeks. Well, where is He now? What has happened?

Well, He has gone. He's gone across over by the Jordan. He's gone to the place where John the Baptist had been baptizing. So Jesus takes His ministry on a road trip to get away from Jerusalem, so to speak.

And where he's at, Scripture says at the end of chapter 10, where Jesus is at, at this time, He's not being harassed. There aren't people trying to stone him. In fact, people are coming to him, coming to him to be healed and to talk to him and touch him, have His shadow fall upon them.

They want to interact with him. It's a pleasant situation, and his own disciples have got to go, you know, things are going pretty good. When we're in Jerusalem, that's not the best place for us. We should probably stay away from there for a bit.

But this is great. We're in the home territory of John the Baptist. And here's the thing: Jesus is doing better things than even John the Baptist had done. We see this at the very end of chapter 10.

It says specifically that Jesus was doing signs that even John had not done. So if you're a disciple and you're sitting there, you're saying, this is good. The end of chapter 10, and we've put the hardships behind — the angry people with the stones and rocks to throw, they're a long ways from us — and here we are.

Then what happens? And a messenger shows up, says there's a problem. Just as you think everything's good and your life has finally got some stability, what happens? A messenger comes and says there's a problem.

And here's the problem. You know that Lazarus guy? The brother of Mary and Martha? You know the ones that we all love?

We go to their house. Whenever we're in Bethany, where do we go? We go to Mary and Martha and Lazarus' house. We've had such great times there.

Well, here's the thing. Lazarus is sick. And he's not just sick, but he's dying. If you're the disciples, you're going, oh no. Oh no. On the one hand, you feel bad for Lazarus.

You're like, we really love that guy. That guy's pretty awesome. I don't want anything bad to happen to Lazarus. But on the other hand, you're saying, this means if we're going to do anything about it, and surely Jesus is going to do something, surely He's going to want to go rush to heal him, that's going to mean we go where?

We've got to go back to Jerusalem, so to speak. Now, Lazarus and Mary and Martha, they actually lived in a place called Bethany, but Bethany is just a stone's throw, maybe 40 minutes' walk from the east gate there in Jerusalem. You go across the Mount of Olives, which is actually more like a little hill, you go a little bit over there, and then there's Bethany.

So it's like a suburb, basically. Bethany is a suburb of Jerusalem, and what's in Jerusalem? All the people that want them dead. So you're the disciples, and you're going, this cannot be.

This is just the worst. Everything is going so well for us. We're safe. And now not only is someone in peril for their life that we care about, but then we've got to go back there, and it's just going to be — it may be the end.

In fact, Doubting Thomas, that's what he's going to say in a couple of verses from now. He's going to say, well, if we've got to do this, we've got to do this. Let's all go back and die with them. That's how certain they were that this was a bad idea in a bad circumstance.

So if you're the disciples, this couldn't be worse news. And yet, Jesus, for His part, is going to be like, yep, everything's right on schedule. What seems to us like a point of crisis in the view of God and the decree of God is not necessarily a crisis. In fact, it may be the very means by which something wonderful is going to enter our lives that otherwise we would never have access to.

And that's exactly what's about to go down in this passage.

Walking in the Light: Christ's Appointed Hours of Work

“Are there not twelve hours in the day? If anyone walks in the day, he does not stumble, because he sees the light of this world. But if one walks in the night, he stumbles, because the light is not in him.”

— John 11:9-10 (NKJV)

All right, let's look now at verses seven through 16. Then after this, He said to His disciples, let's go to Judea again. Remember, that's — Jerusalem's the heart of Judea. Let's go to Judea again.

And verse eight, the disciples said to him, Rabbi, Rabbi — they're probably just holding this coat. Oh no, Rabbi, lately the Jews have sought to stone you, and you're gonna go there again? Verse nine, Jesus answered and said, are there not 12 hours in the day? If anyone walks in the day, he doesn't stumble because he sees the light of the world.

But if one walks in the night, he stumbles because the light is not in them. In other words, Jesus had a set amount of hours to do His work, and He says, I'm going to be about My Father's business here. Verse 11, these things He said, and after that He said to them, our friend Lazarus sleeps, that I may go and wake him up.

Now that — at that point, it was more enigmatic than we think. They didn't understand that. The concept of sleeping, that does reappear several times in the New Testament, but up to this point, not so much. So when He says that so-and-so is sleeping, that was interpreted how?

As he's sleeping. So that's what we see there in verse 11. These things He said, now our friend Lazarus sleeps, but I go to wake him up. Verse 12, then His disciples said, Lord, if he sleeps, he'll get well.

They're like, oh, this is wonderful. He's just sleepy. He's convalescing. Okay, Jesus, if he's just sleeping and convalescing and just kind of resting up, and the road to recovery is nigh, then we can probably hang out here and not go through — and all the stones and the death and all that sort of stuff doesn't have to be on our horizon.

So that's what they imply here.

"Lazarus Is Dead, and I Am Glad": Suffering Ordained for Faith

Verse 13, however, however, Jesus spoke of His death, but they thought He was speaking about taking rest and sleep. Then Jesus said to them plainly, guys, Lazarus is dead. Lazarus is dead. And I'm glad, which is the oddest confluence of things.

Lazarus is dead, and I'm glad. That's not a statement you usually see yoked together. But why is He glad? Why is He glad?

What does it say? And I'm glad, for your sakes, that I wasn't there. I'm glad, for your sakes, that this thing that everyone thinks is terrible, everything thinks is awful, I'm glad it went down the exact way it went down, and I'm glad I'm over here and he's over there. Why am I glad?

Because I know what this is going to mean to you when what happens happens just a couple of short days from now. Of course, He knew how everything was going to unfold. In the moment, they didn't have a clue, but He knew. And He says, I'm glad this has happened, this thing you don't want, this thing no one wants, this thing everyone thinks is awful.

I know how I've ordained it to bring about something just positively wonderful that will teach you and instruct you and glorify the Father. I know all the good I'm going to bring from this, and all you see is everything terrible. But trust me, trust me, guys, it's going to work out just fine.

I'm glad for your sakes, verse 15, that I was not there, that you may believe. Nevertheless, let's go.

Devotion Without Doctrine: The Error of Doubting Thomas

In verse 16, then Thomas, who's called the Twin, said to his fellow disciples, let us go also, that we may die with him. You know, Thomas gets kind of a bad rap at times. What do we refer to Thomas as? Yeah, Doubting Thomas.

That's just kind of rough, and I'm sure it's not going to be fair. When you see him in heaven, I have no doubt you will not go up and, you know, Doubting Thomas, good to meet you. That's not going to be the case. This was a disciple.

This was an apostle. This was a guy. Look at the bravery. No one calls him "let's go and die with him" Thomas, right?

You think of him as this anxious, nervous ninny — oh, mercy me. Well, here he is saying, all right, guys — he's the one who says, let's go die with him. But no one calls him "let's go die with him" Thomas. Whatever the case is, here he says, let's go die with him.

So he's demonstrating devotion, even bravery here in the face of what he expects to be death. He says, let's go, put the shoes on, let's go do this. And yet, even as he demonstrates this great devotion, what's missing? What's missing here?

I would say doctrine, theology. There's a number of things about his statement that don't conform with what just came out of Jesus' own mouth. Jesus had regularly said things that the disciples heard but they didn't hear. Promises He'd made that they didn't quite believe.

Things He said that they didn't quite apply to their reality. It happened all the time. It happens to us too. God says all manner of things to us and then something scary happens in our world and we go, ah, ah, this is just terrible.

And we become Thomas, rubbing our hands together, and we don't quite fully understand. When God has said, hey, when you go through those moments in life, when hardships strike and cancer and death and difficulty — when these things hit, let's start there. Go to My word and see the promises about how good things can come from even this and how it's not the end.

Thomas here, all he could see was his expectation of what was about to go down. It wasn't Christ's expectation in the least. In fact, it was 180 degrees the exact opposite. There was not death that awaited in Bethany.

Rushing God's Timing and Writing Our Own Prescriptions

There was life and resurrection, if they only knew. All right, so back in verse 4, Jesus had said this enigmatic statement about Lazarus's illness. He says, the sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God. Now, if you heard that, you might say, all right, well, maybe he's going to pull through.

And especially when Jesus talks about, you know, sleeping and such, you might think, all right, I think he's resting up and things are going to be okay. But Jesus here, He clarifies. He says, no, no, no, no, no. You're just mishearing or not understanding Me clearly. So let me be clear.

He is dead. Lazarus, in fact, is dead. And then again, He says, I'm glad that I was not there. Now again, that didn't mean that He didn't care.

It didn't mean that He wasn't going to do anything, but what He was going to do was going to be in His timing. Many times we want to rush God's timing. We say, here's the terrible circumstance. God, if you love me, you'll act.

All right, here, circumstance, you're up there. This is here. Anytime, you know, this would be good now. So we give Him our prescription.

Remember, that's half of our prayer life. As we write out a prescription to God and we go up to the counter, we say, here you go, God. Here's what I need, and here's the time frame in which I need it. But oftentimes, that's just not how God works.

That's not how He works most of the time, I would say. So with that said, Jesus says, no, no, you misunderstand. I know he's dead, and I know he's dying, but I'm actually glad he's not there for reasons that you don't know yet, but trust me, trust me, trust me, you will know soon enough.

And that meant, again, they were going to have to go to Bethany where there were people waiting there to stone Him. So if you're the disciples, before we look at the next verses, if you're the disciples, at this point, you go, okay, so we're going to do something. The sitting around part for a couple days, that didn't make a lot of sense.

So now we're doing something, not in the time we expected it to be, but we're doing something. But then Jesus had said and explained, he's already dead. Now, if you're at this point, you're going, really, what's going on? So wait a second.

When he was alive, you didn't want to go to this dangerous place where people are waiting to kill us. When he was alive, you didn't want to go. Now, after he's dead, you do want to go. How often do we do that?

Something happens that really confounds us. We say, God, everything I expect that I knew about You dictates You should act in a certain way in this circumstance, and yet You're not. You're not doing that. If you're His own disciples right then, you didn't get it.

In fact, we see that they didn't get it in everything that they say in these verses. So let's see how this plays out. Just as a side note, we're not going all the way through chapter 11, all the way through the actual resurrection. We may look at that in another interval.

We just want to go through the next block of text, verses 17 through 27. So let me read that, and we'll see what it says.

Four Days in the Tomb: God's Precise Appointment

Verse 17. Now, when Jesus came, He found that he had already been in the tomb for four days. Let me ask you just to stop there. Why was that significant?

Why being in the tomb for four days? Why did that matter? There was a rabbinical teaching that understood — and this was stinking thinking, this was not good theology — but the rabbis had this idea that after an individual died, for a period of three days the soul kind of just hovered about, you know, you guys, kind of hung around the body.

So for three days, there was this possibility that, you know, someone could come back. And part of that's because, back in the day, without great surgeons and medical practitioners, they didn't really know what they were doing. They might say someone was dead when they really weren't quite dead, and then they bounce up.

And so they had this idea — they developed this theology around bad medicine. They had this theology that said that someone who seemed mostly dead, partly dead — you know, what's the Princess Bride thing? Somewhat dead, slightly dead, almost dead, right? They had this idea that you could be slightly dead, somewhat dead, almost dead, and yet not be fully dead, but after four days, then you're — no, no, no, no more chance.

In fact, it was after three days. So by the fourth day, Jesus — note — he's allowed just enough time to go by, just enough time that in everyone's purview, Lazarus is dead, and he's not coming back. In fact, later in the verses we're not even going to look at, Jesus is going to go up to the tomb.

He's going to go ahead and call out to Lazarus, but Martha is going to say, Jesus, you know it's been four days, right? And then she's going to say something. If you read it in the King James Version, it's just wonderful. What does it say in the King James Version?

Oh, yeah, you got it. By now he stinketh. You know, we've been around long enough to know that he's now not in the sort of shape that we need to encounter. Poor Lazarus, let's just leave the tomb there.

So four days has gone by. And again, that's exactly according to the clockwork, the time that Jesus had appointed to this end. So verse 17, when Jesus came, He found that he'd already been dead. He'd been in the tomb for four days.

Now Bethany was near Jerusalem, again, about two miles away. This is a suburb of Jerusalem.

Martha's Misfire: A Right View of God, a Wrong View of the Good

And many of the Jews had joined the women around Mary and Martha to comfort them concerning their brother. Then Martha, as soon as she heard that Jesus was coming, she went and she met Him. She ran out. That was her nature.

She was very action-oriented, right? So she went out and she met Him, but Mary was sitting in the house. Now Martha asked Jesus, or said to Jesus, Lord, Lord, if You had been here, if You had been here, then my brother would not have died. See how she, in effect, draws conclusions based on her right understanding of Him, that He always does the right thing, but her wrong understanding that Lazarus living was the right thing.

You see, she believed Jesus would do the right thing. He always does the right thing. God always does the right thing, right? We can agree with that.

God always does the right thing. The problem was we don't always know what the right thing is, and here she conflated the one alongside the other. Jesus, you always do the right thing, and yet the right thing would have been this, and you didn't do it. You see the misfire going on?

You see kind of the confusion that she has? If you've lived long enough on this globe, you've seen enough hardship that you've taken things to God and said, why? Why, why, why, why, why? And part of it is because you've elevated your senses of what should go down alongside His nature.

You have a right view of His nature. If you think He's in charge, amen. If you think He's good and holy and just, and He always does what's right, amen, amen, amen, amen. The problem is sometimes what you think is right, when you elevate that alongside His nature and say, surely these things work out together, surely He always does what's right, and I know what's right, so surely He would have done that, but He didn't.

What's going on? If you do that, you will spend a great season of your Christian walk just flustered, as His disciples were here, as Martha is here. It's kind of flustered. You get that He's wonderful and loving, and He has all this power, and yet look what happened.

So that's what she says. She says, Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died, but even now I know. Now this is cool. She had faith.

Listen to what she says here. But even now, even after he's dead, even now, I know that whatever You ask of God, whatever You ask of God, God will give You. And Jesus said to her, your brother will rise again. All right, now we're getting somewhere, Jesus.

That sounds promising, but here's the thing. In that culture, even the Pharisees, who are not the most brilliant of theologians, but even the Pharisees talked about the resurrection. Even the Pharisees, even some of the pagan cultures, basically every culture on the globe, even the most pagan secular ones, tend to have some view of life after death, right?

Atheism has never been the norm in any generation on this planet. So when He says that he'll rise again, she gets that. They already sort of believe that. That's not the problem.

So there Jesus says, your brother will rise again. And Martha says, I know. I know that he will rise again in the resurrection in the last day. I know that when it all goes down at the very end, I know then that he will rise.

"I Am the Resurrection and the Life": Christ's Claim of Divinity

“I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die.”

— John 11:25-26 (NKJV)

I understand that. But then in verse 25, Jesus clarifies this. He's been doing throughout this chapter. Verse 25, He says to her, I am the resurrection and the life.

Remember, she had said, whatever you ask of God, God will do. And He says, I am, I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, He's making a claim of divinity yet again, yet again here in the book of John. He believes in Me, though he may die, yet he shall live.

Though he dies, yet he shall live. Something terrible is the soil for something good, He says here. Verse 26, and whoever lives and believes in Me shall never die. And we'll explain that in a moment.

Do you believe this? Asked Martha, do you believe this? I'm the resurrection and the life. The one you're looking in the eyeball, I am he.

The hope not only for Lazarus' future in the tomb there, but yours, I am he. I'm the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me shall never died. Do you believe that?

That's a question 2,000 some odd years later we can ask one another. Do we believe this to be true? Well, what does she say? Verse 27, she said to Him, yes, I believe that You are the Christ, the Messiah.

Remember, Christ was not just His last name. You're the one. You're the one who is the fulfillment of all the promises and prophecies in this book. You're him.

You're him. You're him. Yes, Lord, I believe You are the Christ. You are the Son of God who is to come into this world.

Christ's Tenderness Toward Our Grief, Doubt, and Questions

Alright, as I look to wrap up today, let's consider a little bit of this last interaction here in these verses. You know, everything that Martha says in these verses, I imagine it's really relatable to you and I. On the one hand, again, she expresses hurt and frustration. Jesus, if You'd been here, Lazarus would not have died.

So He said before, I know that mirrors thoughts and concerns and prayers that we've brought to God. Jesus, if You had done blank, then blank would have happened or blank would not have happened. Some better outcome, in my assessment, would have taken place if You had acted as I think You should have.

You've got to be careful when you go down that road in your prayer life. But in the midst of grief and hurt and anxiety and death and hardship and cancer and things like that, you know, we're sinful, weak people. We think all manner of things that I think theologically in our heart of hearts we know aren't true, but yet we don't understand, we don't understand, we don't understand, so we bring it to God.

As a side note, let me just say this. If you've ever done it, that's okay. What does Jesus do here with Martha? Does He say, be gone from Me, you doubter?

No, no. He says, hey, come here. Let's talk about this. Even with his own disciples, when they were freaking out in the upper room, they didn't know what was going on. They didn't like what was going on.

He says, come here, guys. Let's talk about this. He brings them close. And He says, do not let your hearts be troubled.

You believe in God, believe also in Me. In a sense, that's what he's saying here. He's saying, Martha, we got this. He works in the midst or in spite of your discouragement and hardship and your questions and even your doubts.

It's okay to bring them to Him. It's okay to lay down your anxieties and your hurts and your grief before Him. Why? Because A, He's patient and long-suffering and merciful and gentle.

And because B, the great desire of a God who made you and loved you and formed you and calls you a son or daughter, the great desire that He has for you is that He would take His finger and wipe away your tears, because that's the single most tender thing that a father can ever do for a child.

To wipe away the tears and say, come here, I've got you. Not necessarily answer and explain everything. Those things that happen to my children, I can't explain all of it. But I can convey to them I love them.

And for many of us, well, not all of us, that's what God would convey to us. I can't give you all the answers, and even if I did, you still wouldn't understand. But know this: I love you. I love you.

Come here, come here, come here. So that's what we see in these verses. Martha had cried her tears. Mary was home crying her tears.

And yet they're honest with Jesus about their heartache. Mary would say, just a couple of verses from now, she'd say the same thing that Martha did. It's like they talked about this. Lord, if you'd been here, things wouldn't have gone on this way.

They didn't understand. And yet what they did understand was when Jesus looked them in the eye and said, look, here's the thing. I promise you that Lazarus' story is not over. I promise you that this is not the end.

And if it's not the end for him, then when you and I go the way of the daisy, when you and I pass from this mortal coil, it's not the end for us. So that's what Jesus affirmed her. Mary, Martha — Lazarus' story is not over. I am the resurrection and the life.

The One Who Promises Has the Power to Fulfill: Jesus Wept

The one who's making you these promises has the ability to fulfill them. I, as a pastor, can make you all sorts of promises, but I do not have the ability to fulfill these. I can tell you you're going to be resurrected. I promise you, if you're a believer, this morning, I promise you, I promise you, I promise you, if you trust in Jesus Christ for your salvation, I promise you you will live again.

I promise you that even as you perish, even as you pass on this mortal coil, I promise you that you will be resurrected unto a better hope and glory than you could possibly imagine. You will not be banging on the glass saying, let me out. That will not be the case. I promise it to you.

But here's the difference. I can make that promise, but I do not have the ability to fulfill it. Jesus does. Jesus looked them in the eye and said, I make you this promise, but here's the thing.

I am the one who has the power, the authority, and the inclination to do what I have promised. I am the resurrection. I am the life. I am the way and the truth and the life.

No one comes to the Father but through Me. I'm standing before you, and I'm telling you, Martha. I'm telling you, Mary. I'm telling you it's going to be all right.

I'm telling you, just wait. I'm telling you that memorials pave the way to reconciliations and reunions, and they're not that far off. In fact, in short order, in short order this morning, that's what Jesus was going to do. See, here's the thing.

Jesus knew something that no one else there knew. He knew that in just moments, they would be holding and hugging Lazarus once again. Not in just moments. He knew it.

He absolutely knew it. But interestingly, though He knew exactly how this was going to play out, and though He had the good theology, He knew what was going to happen, He had the good theology to understand why it was going to happen, though He had all of that, it's interesting how He approached Mary and Martha, and then in just a few verses later, how He deals with a whole group of people that are beside themselves weeping by Lazarus' tomb.

The God who knows everything, who knew how it was going to turn out, whose theology was excellent — the shortest verse in the entire Bible, verse 35, says He did what when He came alongside those who were crying? It says, Jesus wept. Jesus has empathy and compassion for what we are going through.

Jesus has empathy and compassion. So on the one hand, He tells you, it's going to be okay. I promise you it's going to be okay. But at the same time, He comes alongside and He holds us and says, while you are waiting for that promise to be fulfilled, let's just stand together here now.

While you're confused still and you see through a glass darkly, I'm going to come up right next to you and I'm going to prop you up and hold you together until you see the fulfillment of the things I promised you. Jesus wept. He stands alongside those weeping. He offers them empathy, understanding, counsel, and in due time, He wipes away their tears and the tears never return.

Guys, this Christmas season, that's a God I can worship. How about you? Let's pray.

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